Concetta highlights the importance of patience in modern life, as haste often leads to discomfort and introspection, hindering genuine solutions, an exclusive to Different Truths.

In the relentless rhythm of modern life, ‘hurry-up and wait’ has become an emblematic phrase. We rush because we’re late, perpetually chasing deadlines and appointments; our lives are measured in milliseconds lost. But beyond the urgency born of tardiness lies a deeper impulse—a yearning to escape discomfort, uncertainty, and the weight of indecision.

The essence of ‘hurry-up and wait’ is paradoxical: the frenetic pace of rushing juxtaposed with the interminable stretches of waiting. We hurry to move swiftly away from discomfort, seeking refuge in the false promise of productivity. Yet, in our haste, we often fail to confront the root causes of our unease. Instead of pausing to ponder, we sprint towards hastily crafted solutions, only to find ourselves ensnared in the same dilemmas, trapped in a cycle of perpetual urgency.

Consider the ubiquitous habit of rushing into obligations, decisions, or relationships in a fervent attempt to settle the tumult within. We grasp closure, mistaking the illusion of certainty for genuine resolution. But in our impatience, we overlook the nuanced complexities that demand careful consideration. Like seeds planted in barren soil, our hastily made choices struggle to take root, faltering beneath the weight of our impulsive actions.

And so, we find ourselves ensnared in the paradox of ‘hurry-up and wait’—a ceaseless cycle of rushing headlong into uncertainty, only to be met with the deafening silence of waiting. In our relentless pursuit, of quick fixes and instant gratification, we forfeit the opportunity for deeper introspection and sustained contemplation. We become prisoners of our own impatience, forever chasing after elusive answers that remain just beyond our grasp.

In the ceaseless dance of ‘hurry-up and wait,’ perhaps the greatest lesson lies not in the haste of our actions but in the patience of our waiting. For it is in the stillness of contemplation that true understanding is found, and it is in the quiet moments of reflection that we discover the courage to confront the discomfort that lies at the heart of our hurried existence.

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Concetta Pipia

Concetta Pipia is retired from environmental design, law, and business. She turned to writing and founded the Aspiring Writers’ Society and its e-zine, the AWS e-zine, where she is co-editor. Her poetry has been published in various anthologies, including “Expressions on War,” “Purush Anthology,” “Poetry on a Plate with Spicy Mango,” etc., and e-literary magazines, including “Different Truths.” Concetta is a certified well-life coach who loves horticulture and dogs.

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