Valentine’s Day’s origins can be traced back to centuries of fertility rites, but today it’s primarily about romance. Arindam traces the folklore, from secret weddings to Chaucer’s lovebirds, in a Special Feature, exclusively for Different Truths.

Valentine’s Day, traditionally known as a day of love and romance, has a somewhat bloody origin that dates back centuries. The holiday’s commercialisation can be traced to a combination of historical events, cultural influences, and marketing strategies.

The origins of Valentine’s Day can be traced back to ancient Rome, where it was initially observed as a pagan fertility festival called Lupercalia, celebrated from February 13th to 15th. During this festival, young men would sacrifice animals and then whip women with the hides of the animals they had just slain. It was believed that this ritual promoted fertility and purification.

The transition from Lupercalia to Valentine’s Day as we know it today began in the early Christian era. The Catholic Church sought to Christianise pagan festivals, and in the 5th century, Pope Gelasius I declared February 14th as St. Valentine’s Day to honour the martyrdom of St. Valentine, a Roman priest who was executed on that day in AD 269 or 270.

The story of St. Valentine is shrouded in legend, with several conflicting accounts of his life and martyrdom. One popular legend suggests that St. Valentine performed secret marriages for Roman soldiers, defying Emperor Claudius II’s decree banning marriage for young men because he believed that single men made better soldiers. Another legend suggests that St. Valentine helped Christians escape harsh Roman prisons, where they were often subjected to torture and persecution. Regardless of the specifics, St. Valentine’s Day became associated with love and romance due to these stories of forbidden love and sacrifice.

The association of Valentine Day’s romantic love grew over time, particularly during the Middle Ages, when courtly love flourished in European literature. Geoffrey Chaucer, in his poem “Parliament of Foules,” written in the 14th century, linked Valentine’s Day with romantic love by describing birds choosing their mates on that day.

The commercialisation of Valentine’s Day began to take shape in the 19th century with the rise of the printing press and the mass production of Valentine’s Day cards. Printing businesses that mass-produced cards with romantic messages and intricate designs helped to promote the practice as it became more and more common to exchange handmade cards and love notes.

In the United States, Esther A. Howland, known as the “Mother of the Valentine,” began selling the first mass-produced valentines in the 1840s. Her elaborate, handcrafted cards adorned with lace, ribbons, and colourful illustrations became immensely popular, contributing to the commercialisation of Valentine’s Day.

Throughout the 20th century, marketing campaigns by retailers and advertisers helped to fuel the trend of exchanging gifts and tokens of affection on Valentine’s Day. Today, Valentine’s Day is one of the most commercially successful holidays, with billions of dollars spent on gifts such as flowers, chocolates, greeting cards, jewellery, and romantic dinners.

In conclusion, while Valentine’s Day may have originated as a bloody reminder of the execution of St. Valentine and evolved from a pagan fertility festival, its commercialisation can be attributed to a combination of historical, cultural, and economic factors. From its humble beginnings, as handwritten love notes to the elaborate commercial holiday it is today, Valentine’s Day continues to be celebrated worldwide as a day of love, romance, and commercial indulgence.

References:

1.     History.com Editors. (2009, November 9). Valentine’s Day. History. https://www.history.com/topics/valentines-day/history-of-valentines-day

2.     Kruse, C. (2014, February 14). Esther A. Howland: “The Mother of the American Valentine.” New England Historical Society. https://www.newenglandhistoricalsociety.com/esther-a-howland-mother-american-valentine/

3.     Strong, J. (2019, February 13). Valentine’s Day: How a pagan festival became a global celebration of love. The Conversation. https://theconversation.com/valentines-day-how-a-pagan-festival-became-a-global-celebration-of-love-111319

Author’s Note: Arindam is grateful for the factual input from Anumita Roy that helped him pen this article.

Picture design by Anumita Roy

Arindam Roy

Arindam Roy has over four decades of experience in various newsrooms of renowned media houses. He is the Founder, Publishing Director, Editor-in-Chief of Different Truths, and Kavya Kumbh Publishing Consultant (KKPC). He has co-authored ten chapters in six Coffee Table Books (CTBs) of national and international repute and is the sole author of four forthcoming CTBs (Times Group). He has also published four international poetry anthologies as the Publisher and Editor-in-Chief, participated in several poetry and literary festivals, and won awards and accolades. Arindam co-authored the novel Rivers Run Back with an American writer. He stays in Bangalore and Prayagraj.

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