A Lesson in Love

There’s an interesting place called Grandpa’s Garden, in Discovery Bay, in Hong Kong, hidden by the lush greenery, almost waiting to be discovered. It is a beautiful organic farm, run by a charming, elderly Chinese couple. We rent a small plot of farmland there to grow our own organic vegetables. It is important for the children to know that vegetables do not magically appear in supermarkets, but grow in the sun and the soil and with some tender loving care, says Suveera, in the weekly column, exclusively in Different Truths.

In a little village by the beautiful community of Discovery Bay, which I call home, you can find an interesting place called Grandpa’s Garden, hidden by the lush greenery, almost waiting to be discovered. It is a beautiful organic farm, run by a charming, elderly Chinese couple.  Everyone who visits the farm, fondly calls them grandpa and grandma.If you walk down the winding road from my house, you could reach there within a few minutes. There is a narrow serpentine walking path, by the seaside that leads to it.

It is like a beautiful sanctuary, away from the hustle and bustle of city life. We rent a small plot of farmland there to grow our own organic vegetables. I feel it is important for the children to know that vegetables do not magically appear in supermarkets, but grow in the sun and the soil and with some tender loving care.

I confess. Perhaps it was more an attempt to reconnect with my roots and revisit my childhood, in a way.

My grandfather was a farmer and I remember multiple visits that I had with him to our farm in northern India. I recollect myself as a little girl, holding his hand and walking through the paddy fields, I remember looking up to him, awestruck by his knowledge of vegetables and plants, and of the crop cycles, and water table. I treasure memories of long lazy days on the farm, swinging on trees, running and playing in the fields and drinking chilled water from the tube well. I remember naming the mango trees and claiming the produce and fighting over it with my sisters.

When I was a teenager, I still had those visits with him to the farm. Now, he would stand tall with pride and show me the expanse of the farmland that he had nurtured with love.  The flourishing yellow mustard fields as far as my curious eyes could see. “It is all yours,” he would say to me.

think it was this connection with nature and the earth that I was trying to recreate for my children, in my own small way. For them to plant seeds in the soil and see these grow into a seedling and then plants. For me, in turn, to plant the seeds of responsibility in them. For them to experience the joy of seeing the fruits of their labour grow and to learn to care for something, or someone other than their own selves. To learn and experience ‘as you sow, so you reap’. Or even just to get their hands dirty and play in the soil, to create something beautiful, and be in the midst of nature instead of their electronic gadgets.

I have overheard my son and daughter proudly say to their friends, “We grew the carrot that you just ate.” It gives them a sense of achievement and makes them aware of how our food grows. One of the main benefits has been to be able to consume vegetables that are pesticide and herbicide free, more nutritious and definitely better in taste.

I might add that they enjoy it now. Now my son has names for the plants. He calls the spinach plants, ‘Ironmen’ and the tomato plant, ‘Timmy, the tomato’. My daughter loves to try out new recipes and prefers to use the homegrown bunch for her cooking.

For me, it is just the joy of seeing something grow, and to know that it is healthy, nutritious, and has been nurtured with love.

Wouldn’t it benice for all us city dwellers to be able to grow our own little patch? A plot is space permits or even just a few pots on the window sill. It is a lesson in love for children and adults alike.

©Suveera Sharma

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Suveera Sharma
Suveera Sharma is a postgraduate in English and a qualified software trainer. She is an avid reader and writer. Being the daughter of an army officer, she spent her childhood in various cantonments all over India. At present, she is settled in Hong Kong. She runs storytelling sessions for little kids and writes in her spare time.
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  • This is an amazing concept to have a space where children and grown-ups can grow and care for plants in the city. And be rewarded with produce. Reminds me of the kitchen-garden we used to have in our backyard as kids in the army accommodations. It is pure joy to connect with nature. It was great to travel back in time and picture you with your grandpa in fields of paddy and mustard. Thanks for sharing : )

  • One of my happiest trips in HK was the morning spent on this farm patch.

    Indeed a must have feature for our urban kids. Little connect to mother earth. 🙂

  • Life and the fresh seed sowed in the plot has ultimate similarity. The one who understand the significance of it relish the fruitfull nature of life, the one who miss it , gets entangled to the unwanted vicious disgrace to infinity. It’s incredible you apprehend the significance of this little but incredible lesson of life. God bless!

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