Anumita talks about parenting, with special reference to Autism. Read her column about how to care for special needs children, as we in Different Truths, join the cause of Autism Awareness month, in April. Sound sensitivity is a very common phenomenon for Autistic people. They often find it difficult to listen to the pitch of sounds and would react with either covering their ears or by making sound themselves. Then, there is just the opposite case. Some ignore or block sound to such extent that people may think them to be deaf. And there are those in between. Broadly there is five type of sound sensitivities that she describes in detail, in the weekly column, exclusively in Different Truths.
“Varun always covers his ears when we passed near the old temple,” Minu told Asha. “I have told him that this is disrespectful, but he would not listen. He has become very obstinate.” Minu and Asha had become friends during their waiting time for the bus. Minu worked in the school where Varun studied.
Asha touched Varun’s head and smiled. She got down on her knees, while they waited for the bus to arrive. She had noticed Varun’s distraction and often wanted to talk to him. What Minu did not know is that Asha was a special education teacher. She worked with children in her school who had special needs. Varun was in pre-school and his teacher has been a bit worried about him at school.
After a while, Asha took out her phone and played a mild ring tone and looked at Varun. He smiled. Then, she played a jarring tone. Instantly Varun covered his ears. Asha switched it off. Although the music was jarring, it was not so loud to cause someone irritation, but Varun was distressed.
Asha told Minu that Varun has sound sensitivity. Minu eyes became moist and few drops spilt. She confined in Asha that she knew that things are different for Varun and she had told her husband that Varun needs a thorough check up but her husband is in denial. Asha kept a sympathetic face. “Minu, I think Varun need to be checked by a child psychologist, he needs help.” Asha just kept looking, encouraged Asha gave her the name of the school psychologist and child behaviour specialist.
Later, Varun was diagnosed to be on the spectrum of Autism, with high sound sensitivity.
Sound sensitivity is a very common phenomenon for autistic people.
They often find it difficult to listen to the pitch of sounds and would react with either covering their ears or by making sound themselves. Then, there is just the opposite case. Some ignore or block sound to such extent that people may think them to be deaf. And there are those in between. Broadly there are five type of sensitivity: Hyperacusis- sensitivity to all environmental sounds; Hypersensitivity of particular frequency, this which may or may not be associated with autism; Recruitment- often due to damaged hair cells in the ear; Phonophobia – a fear of specific sounds, e.g. bells or washing machines or other motorised sounds, and Misophobia – getting disturbed by specific sounds made by specific person.
For children, especially, it is the parents’ and teachers’ duty to formulate strategies to see that children with sound sensitivity are not upset. That would not mean to keep all quiet, it would mean slowly get the child acclimatised to his or her phobias and issues.
In the case of Varun, jarring bells caused him anxiety. So, Asha asked Minu to buy different bells. To start with small and soft chiming ones. Let him ring them. Then once he gets used to that sound, Varun can go up a scale and get a bigger one and learn the sound and get used to its pitch and decibel. Anxiety level decreases as the child becomes exposed to the sounds that bother them but should not be used too much that they suffer a sensory overcharge.
Varun’s mother decided to use another walking route to the school bus stop for few days. Then, once a week she chose the temple route. This gave Varun a break and got him that quite space and time. She decided to give him ear plugs the days she knew it is going to be very loud, as the temple often had occasions when they had loud speakers blaring.
These strategies helped Varun get comfortable with his surrounding sounds. He received help from the school and got to work in his classes.
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Anumita Chatterjee Roy is an artist at heart. She has an eye for the unusual. Her naturescapes make her the quintessential Romantic. She paints, is passionate about photography, creates word images in her verses and loves to write. She cooks delicacies and is a foodie. Born in India, she was brought up in several countries. These strengthened the global citizen in her. She now lives in the Columbus, Ohio, with her husband and two sons.